Every girl dreams of a fairy tale wedding. While planning your wedding, there may come a time (OK, it may happen a few times) where you’ll want to throw your hands up in the air and give up.
Most brides experience the same dilemmas. It’s how you deal with those struggles that define your wedding. So, take my advice and be proactive.
Wedding is usually filled with lot of excitement, torture, fun which led to tiring of the news weds There are no doubt that post marriage girl’s whole life changes. Starting from her lifestyle, her routine, everything changes and she enters into a new place.
Use these tips and tricks to make your wedding a memorable day. That way, you can focus on what’s truly important: Celebrating with your fiancé!
Clothes and Jewellery: Soon after wedding, relatives keep visiting the house to meet the new daughter-in-law and hence she has to sit wearing heavy jewellery like a bride. Most of the time, the brides at that time feel so uncomfortable that there is only one thing in their mind to somehow get rid of the jewellery and chill in comfortable clothes.
Loss of Sleep: This is the biggest tension of a new bride that whenever she is tired and lost among scores of people, she even can’t sleep. Actually, she has to maintain a lot of formality. Despite of feeling exhausted, she has to pretend that she is absolutely fine.
Respect: It cannot be denied that one of the tensions of the new bride is how to call whom, who to call by name. Most of the confusion is about what to call the younger ones because in Indian culture there are many relationships which have to be given the same respect as elders even when they are small. Believe me, half the time the new bride thinks about who should be called.
SAAS Bahu relation: Actually, the biggest problem is SAAS Bahu relation. From older times, a mother presumes herself as lady of the house and treats the new bride not as a maid. Where, in fact, she should be given ample time, love and care to adapt to the new home, their traditions and food habits etc. If only her MIL treats her as her daughter and the new bride treats her as her mother, there will be fewer problems for the new bride.
