Love is an ever fixed mark. If love alters, it is not true love, says English playwright William Shakespeare. Real love is an unwavering unbreakable and unequalled fondness and devotion for one’s partner and two way traffic of true love between them. It is the most precious, sacred and blessed practice at some point of time of life. Those in love feel the value of it in its true sense. Occasionally, love seems inadequate and scarce when looked at and experienced. Here, all possible steps should be taken to perpetuate a perfect understanding with a sense of positivity and optimism. Moreover, it fully depends on the partners how best they adjust with the other—a sort of oneness that reflects as a bond of true love, reposing intense faith in each other, being humble, loyal and adoring with a reward of reciprocity. Now and again, it is seen that futility engrosses partners with frustration and unworthiness without true love and understanding. Though love, at times, alters its course and makes life unsmooth, the trust in each other remains the cornerstone of lasting happiness.
Occasionally, partners may run into frustration or a breakup stemming from self-seeking greed for wealth, lust, unfulfilled desires and ambitions. Therefore, partners should always avoid things such as ego, anger, sarcasm, revenge and dislike. This makes them look down upon or hurt each other’s feelings and sentiments.
Essence of love
Love and life always stand inseparable. It is mutual and common, thus binding couples and partners together throughout life for permanence of relationships. If any difference appears momentarily, it should be sorted out with certitude and positivity. Hardly is there any mismatch noticed among old couples as they know the values of sustenance and continuance of family blessed with children and grand children. So, the verdict is they should, by all means, strive for peace, harmony and understanding.
Love in adolescence
Sometimes, adolescent students, of coeducational institutions in particular, fall in love and long for each other despite due advice and caution issued by parents as well as teachers. At times, tragic incidents and accidents happen which should be prevented through timely advice, guidance and counselling. The knowledge and expertise of career counsellors and psychologists may go a long way sorting out the adolescent and psychological problems, so that students should follow a moral path and come out as bright and successful future citizens.
Matured Love
Though, infrequently, love between the matured partners who weigh pro and cons, keeping in view various factors, goes astray and diverted. The existence of such a relationship is quite risky and may not be healthy and beneficial for any one. Life should be faced as it stands in its reality without taking resort to dishonest, unlawful and illegal means. Honesty and uprightness should, undoubtedly, help a couple lead a constructive, responsible and happy life, reaching the cardinal principles of love and affection in all spheres.
Despite the fact that one needs to overcome a series of hurdles to get the essence of love, there is no need to let one down. You may not be successful in winning a heart, but you should continue to make sustained efforts to make love, relationships and life quite a success. The famous lines of George Luis Borger, the famous Argentine writer, are apt contextually, ‘Nothing is built on stone, all is built on sand, but we must build as if the sand were stone.’
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