Hyderabad: As actress Aditi Rao Hydari prepares to turn 40 October 28, she is reflecting on nearly two decades in cinema with gratitude, clarity and, above all, curiosity.
Ahead of the milestone birthday, Aditi says the biggest lesson she would offer her younger self is to stay true to who she is.
“I would tell her to just happily be herself, not listen to the noise, trust the ones who will nurture her and challenge her. To not be in a hurry to have everything figured out. To enjoy learning, to always be curious, to be unafraid to make mistakes because you can and you will turn them around,” she says.
Looking back on her journey, Aditi acknowledges that the road has not always been easy. Rather than dwelling on disappointments, however, she chooses to focus on the lessons each experience has taught her.
“I choose to be grateful for every blessing, and the ability to overcome and not dwell on situations that feel unkind or unfair. It’s always been an uphill climb, but while every step uphill is tough, it’s a step up and as long as I am able to do that I’m grateful,” she says.
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At this stage in her career, the actress says she is also clear about recognising her worth and choosing the people and projects she wants to associate with.
“I believe that I must and will be the best version of myself, work hard and work with the best who demand the best of me and also value me. I’m determined to work in this way. If people mess with me, deny me what I deserve then that’s on them… it’s their karma,” she says.
With her birthday falling around Diwali, celebrations have long been part of Aditi’s childhood memories. However, she prefers to keep things simple and spontaneous rather than making elaborate plans.
“I don’t usually make elaborate plans for my birthday. I like spending time with the people I love. For me, birthdays are more about feeling centered and rooted. And in fact not making any plans… Impromptu plans feel the most magical and fun,” she says.